A good headlight lens can help with most of the scatter, that's it's job. I have an old koito lens and it's worked very well with the hid light I have in it. My fz6 has an emgo bucket and lens, which has fluting for beam control. I have an led in that 1, and I never had an issue with oncoming traffic.
I think a couple of the biggest factors is a lens with good beam control, and height adjustment. But, there are definitely crappy bulbs out there, in all types.