The left side of the m.Unit looks for a ground signal. The output side sends 12v on that wire. So, if you have 2 wires on that switch, tie one to ground and then run the other to the mUnit. Then run a separate wire from mUnit to coils. If you operate that switch, it would send 12v to the coils in one position, then cut the 12v current in the opposite position.
Make sense?
Now that is based upon a single function switch. In your case, if there is a Red wire in the switch assembly feeding 12v to a Blk or BLK/WHY wire then the above is not applicable.
Without watching that video or seeing your wiring I’m only telling you how the mUnit works in general. Your situation requires more detail provided from you on actual wire routing.