I'm only 5'7, 140lbs and this thing is a #$%* to move! I don't know if it's due to the slight brake grab or what?
Disk brakes can easily add horendous drag of not in proper working order. They can be rebuilt.
I'm to small and to weak to get this thing on the center stand.
You are probably doing it wrong. But, there are a couple things that will make it easier.
1) roll the rear tire onto a 1 inch thick (or more) board before the practice atempt.
2) Although the bike will move rearward during the maneuver due to the mechanics of the centerstand, you do NOT need to provide any of your energy for rearward movement of the bike.
3) balance bike upright, lower centerstand to make ground contact on both feet. Right foot with hard soles on center stand lever, right hand on frame or grab bar on bike where you can keep your back straight up and hopefully your right arm straight, too. Use your right leg to push down on the center stand lever and lift your shoulders up with the bike while your right arm is straight down holding the bike frame or grab bar. If you have arm strength to add lift to the bike use it. But, your right leg muscles are really all that is needed. The bike will come up and move back onto the centerstand. And, you'll wonder why you thought it was so difficult.
I can't comfortably sit on the bike. Now for me, comfortably means I can get my feet flat on the ground so in the event of anything I'm not tip toe-ing it; which is the current state. My original plan was to lower the bike by lacing up some 16" rims to the stock hubs front and rear (I also like the look of smaller rims) as well as installing shorter shocks in the rear and if necessary sliding the triple tree down a little. Wehn I was out looking at the bike today it looked as if the rear wheel might not work at 16" due to the rear brake. 
A motorcycle is such a personal vehicle, one wonders why you would purchase a bike on which you weren't comfortable upon?
You can cut down the seat or replace with one that has less cushion material.
Your can use shorter shocks.
Perhaps a 16 Inch wheel can be laced to your hub.

These will lower your body to the ground and help with your foot to ground contact.
These things will also put bits of bike lower to the ground during leanover in corners. Some think sparks are cool.
And, unless you shorten the centerstand, too, it will be more of a lift to get it up.
Should I just turn around and sell this one and look for a smaller bike again (had zero luck before) or just give up and go back to settling (and that's exactly what it is) for a sportbike?
The local Honda dealer once told me that a lot of new CB550s were sold to people of smaller stature because they weren't comfortable on the bigger 750. And, with a 140 lb rider, the 550 would be considerably more agile and nearly as fast as the 750 with a 200 lb. rider.
Cheers,