Hondaman,
do the steel plates sharp edge go towards the engine or the rounded edges?
Like PeWe said: most of them I have replaced in virgin engines were with the sharp side in toward the engine.
As long as they are all stacked the same way, though, it usually works out fine: just don't alternate them.
This orientation ensures they all flex in the same direction when the clutch is loaded. This helps the oil enter-exit uniformly between the plates when operating it.