crazypj, i don't think i quite understand what you are saying regarding adding the spring rates. why would the original spring with extra preload with a short length of stiff spring added end up making the forks shorter? is that just because there are a few extra coils?
I remember you have to count the total number of working coils in a spring.
When you fit different springs together they don't act as though they were two different springs, but like a single longer spring with more working coils.
You may get a higher initial preload due to fitted length but overall the rate drops. (longer spring with more coils, its compressed further but the actual rate is lowered during total movement)
eg, a 100lbs/in spring plus a 150lbs/in spring doesn't get you 250lbs/in. It doesn't even get you 125lbs/in, its actually lower, but I forget the math and why (its actually pretty simple math but totally counter intuitive)
I don't remember enough to explain it better, haven't looked at it for at least 6 yrs (sorry)
PJ