We solved the problem on jr. dragsters by running a surface gap plug. I knew the compression was high enough when I could read the pistons part number on the inside of the combustion chamber.
I need to have a look at the chamber on my old spiderwebb cracked heads and think this through.
While looking at a set of old plugs that were in those heads I'm seeing the red deposits caused by the coolant leaking. My engine guy was sure my crankcase moisture issue was caused by the vacuum pump relief valve being on a valve cover, my comeback was then why does Barrs leak cure it? I moved the relief valve to the pump about the same time the defective heads gave up.
I saw that with the R6 road race engines I built...squish was about .025 or so with Carrillo's. Some people ran it tighter than that but I'm not a fan of building bombs rather than engines. Those things were shifting at 15,500 or so too.
I tried the indexing thing and have .020, .030 and .040 washers (if memory serves correct). It looked cool when looking at the chambers but that was about it.
I think shortening the electrode had more of an effect but never tested it on a chassis dyno and that was before Iridium plugs.
I've heard/read ...as have other fellas on here I'm sure....about different port finishes.... rough, super rough, dimpled, chiseled and others I've forgotten about being the greatest thing since ice cream. If one finish was absolutely proven to give that 1 or 2% extra everybody would copy it and do it.....hard to keep secrets. 
Attention to detail and using proven parts/ideas is the key to success IMO.
There’s been a lot of old research on the sbc and bbc squish/quench. They used to agree that the best performance was achieved, when at operating temperature, the piston could not build up any carbon in the squish zones..however. If the pistons tops were being polished, lightly touching the head, the rod bearings would fail becoming the bomb you indicated…No clearance near TDC can place loads greater than the oil film protecting the bearing can support..Its been explained like a die-cast’s break over center locking device..When the pistons near TDC and aren’t traveling up very much, even the mixture in the squish zones can be similar to a mini hydra-lock because it can’t get out quick enough…But the rod at TDC will break over center easily anyway..
And Will that’s sounds like old Smokey was just being old Smokey, doing what wasn’t written in the rule book…
But, that said, he was right when he said. “ it’s best if you don’t go over 12.5:1 and don’t turn it over 8500, it’ll live 500 miles like that”. “But if you don’t go 14+:1 and turn as hard as it’ll go”, “ someone else WILL and you WILL lose”..😁🤔
It’s interesting you mentioned Carrillo rods. They recommend 0.002 clearance for their rods.. It seems they’re not keeping up with the latest pro stock clearances for the low viscosity oil gains some are enjoying..?🤔