If I were rebuilding the caliper, I would tend to believe that the silicone grease in the brake system would be a bad idea. I got to thinking about your problem, and was picturing the grease migrating to the brake line and clogging it enough to prevent the fluid from going backward to the master cylinder every time you release the lever. The fluid has to go somewhere, and with the grease in the line, you essentially created a check valve, which prevents the piston from retracting. Just a theory, but try cleaning the caliper again and remove all traces of the old fluid and grease, and start over.