I can understand people padding their prices in the area of $5 to cover the packaging, drive to the post, and the antagonizing 20 minutes they stand in line while the geriatric (with proper apologies to any geriatrics who may happen to be reading this

) in front of you gabs, buys stands, writes addresses on 20 envelopes, and then mails them.
But all in all, eBay has become wayyy to commercialized anymore. It was great when people would just put up some stuff lying around their house/garage they didn't want anymore, but now you have all these jerkoffs who do NOTHING BUT sell on eBay. It makes me sick to drive down the road and pass signs for stores who do nothing put sell items on eBay for people, because you know those are the ones jacking all the prices up 20-50% just so they can pay rent on their buildings, when the whole process is redundantly simple and the average village idiot could put their own listing up in 10 minutes. ARGH..
And then, on top of that, you have these other companies out there who make/import the product, pay people to post the stuff for them from their homes, and then ship it from China/Taiwan direct to customer from warehouse who jack up their prices to pay for hidden international shipping and the extra middleman joe blow who sits around the house all day in their underware complaining about the declining economy while the rest of us are out working at real jobs!
Sorry, don't mean to rant, but I do alot of internet purchases myself and find myself getting just as frustrated as you with the whole process. Hopefully if I've done nothing else I've made a few of you chuckle.