I was pretty worried about my son as he grew up. He even took an auto course in High School. He couldn't change a tire, check the oil or clean a car. He couldn't drive a nail, use a saw or manipulate a wrench. His attitude was "whatever"! He got married a year ago at the age of 23 and bought a house. He has completely renovated it including framing, drywalling, plumbing, electrical, cupboards, hardwood flooring, new deck, brick patio and waterfall. The colors are not what I would pick but he did a quality job that is amazing. Don't give up hope - they come around.