Multi-grade oils behave as the lower weight when cold and the higher weight when hot. Forks aren't heated by combustion temps, so a 10W-30 motor oil is going to behave like 10 weight fork oil, except for the foaming on washboard roads.
A thicker oil in the forks will make the front suspension stiffer and transfer more road irregularities to the handle bars. Some like it that way.
Fork oil is available at motorcycle shops, or google "Fork oil".
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