I'm astonished at how many aspects of Tom's private life are being discussed in public. I definitely would not want to if that was my case.
Let's give Tom some privacy for his personal affairs. I think we all wish him the best -well, let's say almost all-. I don't think we have the right to enter into his private life that much without having been invited. Let's move on, and hope he will be back on track soon, either here or somewhere else.