That's a fair question I guess...
One thing is to try to avoid the (what I consider Republican) attitude of "I've got mine- too bad for you". We are all interconnected. I think many people don't pay attention to what goes on in DC until it's too late. We trust our government. I think things like Medicare Plan D was a political palliative that, in many cases, actually makes things worse.
I think we, as a country, need to enter into an attitude similar to WWII where some sacrific is going to be necessary to get a more cohesive country together. Moral issues, for instance, don't need to be legislated- they should remain in a church or synagogue. We need to find a leader, not someone who looks like he might win an election. Republicans are isolationist and support fear and long=gone ideals of small government and responsible spending. When was the last time any of that ever happened? Democrats have NO PLAN except to reject anything Republicans think or say. Hardley a platform, yet that's what we have to vote on. Obama talks about change... So did Che, Lenon, Marx, et al. So what?
Would I be willing to pay more taxes for better schools? Yes. A couble billion that can't be found in Iraq? No.
I'm not a businessman, so I'm not sure how "things" got this bad. I do think that reliance on machines has caused costs to go up. A reluctance to accept that death is a part of life creates unrealistic expectations, I think. Doctors say that malpractice insurance is too high, but in this state it really is almost impossible to sue a doctor for malpractice. So-where is his insurance money going exactly? Getting rid of pill patents so generics could be made is restraint of free trade? No one would make new drugs because they couldn't recoup their money they spent on R&D (and marketing!)?
And you're right- people don't want to take responsibility for being overweight, smoking, eating crap, no exercise.
Having a ME vs THEM attitude doesn't help, though. Because so many people fall on bad times isn't especially because they're irresponsible or lazy or stupid. One can't insure against all eventualities. #$%* happens. I sure wish it wasn't like that, because I thought I had it together at one time, too.
As a famous New York business tycoon (just kidding- c'mon now), perhaps we could ask business oriented people to design solutions instead of "The Government".
Stream of conciousmess there. don't know if it makes sense, but dinner is waitng. Is there no Spell Check anymore?!
TTFN