im on another forum, but thats a custom drum building forum. Ive been on there for about 4 years, and have over 3,000 posts. by the way, if anyone wants a custom snare drum built, check out my site
www.area51drums.com (shameless plug)
I do alot of trading and buying from members. I basically will not do a deal with someone unless they have been on the board for a while, and have a decent amount of posts. Even at that, i have lost a few good friends by doing business transactions with them that went sour, basically i pay them for something then never hear back from them, and dont get what i paid for for months. These are people i talked with every day, for years. You can never tell how someone is just by how many posts they have, or how long you have known them. Some of the biggest flakes are people we know everyday, and would not know that until our first business deal goes down with them. Business deals and friendships should definitely be kept seperate if possible, or at least only deal with someone you know you can trust. I am usually super reliable, and when someone pays me i ship the stuff out the next day via fed ex then send them a tracking number. But...lately i need to send a member here something i promised them (the cruise control) but i havent done it cause i keep forgetting. no he didnt pay for it, but i offered it to him for free. I just keep forgetting. So by that, im saying a feedback thread is helpfull.