Just started reading this thread..
You are in too much of a hurry..
Slow down, read a bit before you work. & go a bit slower.
Simple thing about the vavles, too tight it can not run and that is only one problem, if you had to time cam more than once, you could be having trouble with every other step.
Not trying to be too harsh, rather teach or help. Double check everything you do.. walk a way a few minutes if it is not clear..
Double check everything you do (its just GOOD PRACTICE on any work) & it would have caught your cam problem..
I would not use starter fluid, I dont think it helps your engine any.. I prefer raw gas in a squirter of some sort, but be very careful.. real easy to go wrong with it used the wrong way.and MUST be outside & NOT over asphalt..
Good luck..