Most importantly, I want to say that I appreciate the forum and feel sorta like I'm home when I'm here. I have to agree that when someone comes to exploit the forum, I don't feel a need to be apologetic when there's a negative reaction. In many ways, we're all looking for a place to call home. I'd like to say this is one place I feel "at home". When it smells like someone does not have the loyalty or care for this forum that I do, I look with a jaundice eye at their intent... much like when someone becomes unwelcome in one's home.
We can make logical rules to govern how we should behave, and worse, how we should think or feel about certain types of behavior on this forum but like government, when you add rules on top of rules to manage exceptional, convoluted situations instead of the norm, it's real easy to lose track of the fundamentals.
I find the discussion that has come out of this situation intriguing and hope that it has been unifying and defining (in a good way) for the forum.
Again, I greatly appreciate the forum... what a great place!