I agree with nick and raul.
I will "weigh" in on this one. All 230 lbs
As you may know I have a 350, a 400, and several 750's
I have owned sportbikes.
I have found which is perhaps opposite than you describe that absolute power corrupts absolutely.
If I had a 100 hp motorcycle I would exploit and attempt to use all 100 of those ponies.
If I had a 200 hp motorcycle I would use or attempt to use all of them.
Eventually I would kill myself. Its an eventuality.I have not a lick of common sense.
So I ride the 350 around town. I find its size and power perfectly adequate around town.
I can't really horse it too much as it doesn't have that kind of cabability. I like nick learn to ride ahead and plan.
As for
the attitude:
Men ride for the risks, women ride in spite of the risks. Then theres Harley riders who ride because they think it makes them cool
Sexist you say? I don't believe so...I just think women have both more sense and self preservation instinct. Men don't have the sense god gave a turnip sometimes.
Hope, I think you'd absolutely love a 350.
I think you should get one.
Remember the smaller the bike the slower your generally going...so that's a plus as far as wrecking one goes.
Also don't discount the feeling of more control over a smaller bike. Rather than horsing it around there may be times that smaller may in fact help avoid a situation or regain control over a problem.