That washer doesn't seal anything. If you have oil coming out of there, you've got bigger problems.
Looks like its just a washer, there to lift the bracket that the valve cover end-caps bolt to. Not sure why it needs to be there, but a standard washer should do the trick. I suppose that bracket can twist/turn on maintenance, so having a washer keeps it from wearing on the valve cover. Who knows.
But, again, it isn't sealing anything. The end-caps have two pins with o-rings that go into the shafts where your rocker arm shafts go in and out of. They are prone to leaking, so replace the o-rings while you're there. They seal the oil in the valve train.