@Matt, I know I read that and I thought hmmm that sounds like I'm trying to say it was his method that made it worse. Not at all, your right that stud is CA..RAP.
Update: I got my buddy over with the snap on extractors, drilled it first with a smaller set (about half the size of the stud) the extractor spun out of spot with some real force on it. Next I tried size up with is just ever so slightly smaller then the stud. Same situation there, spun out and left me with nothing left to try as far as extractors. The stud is looking uglier then ever now, almost as if it was one with the engine. My buddy said he'll get a tap and die kit Monday and we can just bore it smooth and re-tap it. The thing I'm worried about here is if the angle of the new thread is off, that flange wont fit on correctly and I imagine it could make a weaker seal in the end, but I might be wrong. Maybe I can get it right that way, who knows.
@Okie, do you think it's to far gone to try and use your method? Sounds like it could work and salvage most of the existing thread allowing a confident tap(die?) of the old socket. I'll print out this thread and see what I can do today without sacrificing any more mess-ups. I'll just have to take it slow.
@MCRider, I was thinking about using one of those studs you suggested before I'm going to look into them a little closer.
Thanks everyone for the input
I know this will turn out right......eventually.