This is what I do with my motors and so far do not have any leaks, these are also race motors so get ridden at the limit and beyond 100% of the time.
First after making sure that the cyl head and cyl block surfaces are super flat. I have mine skimmed, or by some of the methods already mentioned.
Make sure the surfaces are nice and clean, install new rubber seals on the 2 oil restrictors and on the 2 studs, use a very fine layer of Honda bond around those seals. Spray a new head gasket with head gasket copper coat, allow a couple of Min's before you fit the gasket. Fit the head and torque the nuts as per the workshop manual to 14.5-16.7 lbs-ft. Then I torque to 18 bls-ft. carry on and complete assembly. let it stand for a few days before starting the motor.
This has always worked for me.
Kevin