I had the stomach bug last week too, mine was out the other end.
Twasn't my idea about how to drill the rotors, don't want to take any undue credit.
As far as the bolts, we had a big discussion about this last summer. Started with the idea of using stainless bolts. While its true the stainless don't have the strength an engineer might say is appropriate, fact is many have used them with no failures, The design is overengineered. I have testimony from a stainless supplier that SS are perfectly up to the job and they wouldn't hesitate to sell them for that application. I was coming down on the side of getting stronger bolts during that discussion but have since decided stainless is fine.
I used standard grade on the bike in my avatar and on Phaedrus I which had many years on the racetrack and 50k on the street. If memory serves, I had to grind down the heads of the bolts, or the nuts, to clear the speedo drive. PS: Its your neck, I don't recommend anything.
So standard bolts from the hardware or Fastenal are likely fine as well. I think MRieck said he taps out the hubs with helicoils and threads in bolts (screws?) from each side. Didn't mention if they were higher grade or not, that i remember.
I've heard the Goldwing bolts are drop in replacements. You can get the part number form any online OEM retailer like Honda-Parts Direct http://www.hondaparts-direct.com/fiche_select.asp