I did some searching for reviews myself on this very subject and couldn't find much "new" info that makes me believe in LEDs in an H4 housing. I also don't really like the look of the projector/JW Speaker style LED assemblies, so I went with Trucklite 27270C from...well geez, i don't remember where, but it was like $140 shipped. Do some searching and you'll find the lowest price, as most were in the $170 range.
It's DOT approved, and the light output does the trick but it doesn't exactly turn night into day (at least the low beam). The pattern could use some work, but it has a cut-off that makes it highly visible by other drivers without blinding them. I too don't do much night riding, but due to the visibility by surrounding cars, it's great at dusk, dawn, and daylight hours.
If you find an LED bulb that has a good cutoff, pattern, and power, then please let us know! I'd love to just buy a bunch of different ones, but that starts to get expensive.