yes Cudjo, there are a whole lot of people with strange side-effects in their brains from thinking that "sex is naughty".
but then there's also:
"sex is power"
"sex is control"
"sex is lucrative"
"I'm special because I'm sexy"
"he/she is special because they're sexy"
"I can't live without him/her, they're so sexy"
"I'm worthless because I'm not sexy enough"
and lots of other sexually-non-repressed cultural issues that surface as we become less repressed culturally. Who is to say what is worse?
I agree that we have problems on top of problems here, but IMO even those problems listed are side effects of a culture that comes from repression, even if it is a generation or more back for an individual. I dont think that for the most part people with healthy sexual upbringings end up having these issues to a dramatic degree.
but overall I like the way you think, Edbike. I would guess if we were in the same room, we might be arguing a lot of the same points
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I agree with Cudjo. The US is a very dualistic society. Part of this cultural problem stems from Puritans that were practically expelled from England for their extreme views. A group actually later went back to England as the Plymouth Brotherhood. This Puritan culture set the code of conduct in this very empty wilderness. Much of this Puritan influence remains today. That is the duality I spoke of.
The US was very much isolated from Europe by distance after it's founding. That is why US English differs from UK English, there were no books coming over from England and misspellings were common. Noah Webster included some of these common misspellings in his Dictionary along with some streamlining.
The US was also culturally isolated from Europe. Europe was quite well established by the time the US was founded. The early citizens of the US were very busy surviving and attempting to build some sort of infrastructure where none had existed before. The Puritan ethic was simply carried on in it's basic form, hard work, strict moral code, etc.
The culture of Europe continued to evolve while the US was busy building and had little time to ponder the fine points.
The firearm was a utility tool in the US, it provided food for the table, the elimination of crop eating animals, and self defense. The gun that won the West was not a Colt pistol, it was a smooth bore shotgun. It was versatile in that you could load it many different ways depending upon need. It became as common place to have a firearm as it was an axe.
The US is very hard to understand, we export culture, we do not import it. We are the last holdout to convert to metric and it will be a long time before we will buy our gasoline in Liters, and buy a kilo of sugar. Almost all fasteners used today are Metric because it suits us. US Americans do what suits us, we are very pragmatic since all of our Ancestors came here for pragmatic reasons. They were living so badly in Europe, they were willing to take a chance. So, our pragmatism is passed down to us by our immigrant Parents or Grandparents. The new immigrants are just as pragmatic as the earlier group.
While we have retained much of this Puritan ethic, the Constitution has allowed us to be the major consumer and producer of Pornography in the World, we just do not admit it - that is the dual part.
You will never get a consensus on this private ownership of firearms in the US, it is a cultural thing. If there were not pro and anti gun factions in the US, it would be a non issue, but both sides keep the pot boiling. If not for these zealots banging away at each other, the average Joe would have a rifle in the closet, or a Pistol in the nightstand and life would go on as it always has.
In States with liberal Pistol Laws, nothing unusual happens. People go about their daily lives as they do in States with strict Laws. I do not feel safer in one than the other.
I do own Pistols and I do not like being branded as Pro or Anti, I would like to simply be left alone. It is in my nature. If you want to take something away from me I will resist. I think most US Americans feel that way.