cops seem to hate me... I get alotta tickets for public tooth display (smiling)...
I live in the middle of nowhere too, and I know where your coming from.
my headlight is so bright, it's ridiculous. but there's no cars in the oncoming lane for miles, so it doesn't matter.
and if one does come, you can always reach out and push the headlight down.
I don't know why everyone makes such a big stink about brightness. maybe they live in the city or their headlight brackets are super tight...
if you live in the city the streetlights make it so you hardly need a headlight at all.