born and raised in new england, connecticut and way northern vermont. seems like lots of folks think theres manners ALL over the south. i'm here to tell you, hartford is friendlier than columbia sc for the most part. i've been in the southeast for 20 years now and i've had enough. winters? 1987-1989 i lived in greensboro vermont, halfway between hardwick and craftsbury. THAT was winter weather. in a way, i kind of miss it. too bad new england is so damn expensive now.