Those look fairly normal to me, unless I'm missing something?
Use Easy Off oven cleaner and a brass brush to remove some of the carbon, that may help. Note that oven cleaners react with aluminum so don't leave it on there overnight.
Pry the ring gap open a bit, which will cause the ends of the ring to stick out a bit. Then clip on the expander, squeeze to stretch the ring open, while using your other hand to steady the other side of the ring. Finally, lift the ring straight up off hte piston. Don't let the piston twist when you expand it.
How did you ruin the one piston, it it gouged?
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