Does anyone know offhand what the header bolts are supposed to be torqued at? I can't find it in the Honda service manual or Clymer.
Others may disagree and I'll entertain such, but I would tighten them only as much as necessary to do the job which is to seal the exhaust gasses. Kinda like a spark plug. Run it down to where you feel resistance then 1/4 turn.
YOurs will be harder to do that way since the pipes are giving you resistance from the get go. Still my principle applies. Tighten to where everything is firm and you've caught roughly the same number of threads on each bolt, assuming they are all the same length.
Start it up, listen for a leak. If you find one, tighten it up a bit. Also use anti seize on the bolts as they are steel and the head is aluminum.
But I see no reason to wind them down real hard. Just makes it hard to take them out later.
Now if it were the stock spigots I'd likely look for a shop manual entry for guidance.