i just did my 19" front, having never built a wheel before, and when i got it back from the shop after having the tire mounted, they said it was perfect. didn't even need balancing. the spokes with the sharper angle are the outer ones. lace the inners first on both sides, lightly seating the nipples. then go through and do the outers. when you're done go around and tighten the by hand until they are firmly tightened, making sure to tighten them all only a little at a time.
i made a truing stand out of an old swingarm mounted in a bench vice, with closepins as guides for truing. spin it around, tightening each nipple half a turn or so with your spoke wrench, until you finally have them all fairly tight. not too tight, and make sure to only tighten a little at a time, evenly all the way around the wheel, or you'll pull it way out of round really quickly. once they're all tight. start adjusting for hop, and then for wobble. if you do a search on this forum, you'll find where i was asking some wheel questions not so long ago, and someone posted a helpful link. it was after i had it built, but it was still a great link.
gotta build my 16" rear tonight! been waiting for my conversion spokes from buchanans forever and finally got them. good luck!