I had a long explanation typed out but lost it all.

I was in a car accident that totaled my pickup and broke the fourth metacarpal in my right (dominant) hand. Was off work for a month. Had surgery, two screws and a plate. Scar down the length of the back of my hand. Total bills that the ins co has paid is about $16,500.
I realize they'll want me to offer, followed by them low-balling me. How do I know if the adjuster is (God forbid) making a reasonable offer? I read on one website to use the "multiplication factor" to determine pain and suffering, in which you multiply your medical bills by 3 to get a "fair" value, then double that to get your first haggling point. Seems kind of high to me, but then again I've grown up as cheaply as possible and may be low-balling myself. How do I know how much is "reasonable" and even possible?