Okay, so we ALL failed the test.. those numbers aren't contradictory. If the intake is advanced to be at 104.5, the exhaust number will go up, not down, as the degrees BTDC are decreasing as the piston rises. Brain fart when I asked the question, I guess.
I did talk to the head machinist at megacycle though, and suggested that I leave it where it is and see how I like it. He says they usually suggest 104.5 degrees with stock compression, but that my 10.6/1 CR ought to allow for that much cam retard. We are talking about 1 degree or so at the crank, after all. Anyway, problem solved for now.