You should get resistance at the lever without running the engine. As far as I know, the fact that it's a wet clutch doesn't affect its engagement or disengagement.
What method are you using to bleed?
When I flushed my clutch fluid, I grabbed a brake bleeder kit (basically a little jar with a tube going into the bottom of it) at an auto parts store. I put a little fluid in the jar so that the tube was immersed. I then filled up the clutch line by putting a funnel over the banjo fitting and pouring fluid in there.
To bleed, I'd pump the clutch lever a few times, hold the lever in, then open and close the bleeder screw. I heard that you don't want to pull the clutch lever all the way to the handle, but leave a 1/2" gap. I'm not sure if that's important or not, but it's what I heard. I made sure that there was lots of fluid in the reservoir and bled it a lot - pump several times, hold the lever in, open and close bleeder screw.
It should eventually build up pressure. It was a pain when I did it, hopefully it works for you.