Thank you, Larry
The wheel did not have the rubber stripe over nipples, I put one in - but I doubt that makes a difference.
I have tire flow or something to that name from pepboys and three tire spoons - made for cars. I routinely change tires on my jeep and trailer and tractor, but maybe those irons are too big.
Anyway the last pull over is on the edge of damaging the tire, i can feel the stress and I ended up with another two holes in the tube - hmmm, better check the inside of the tire, it may be a coincident.
My procedure is pretty much same as yours, between bicycle tires and car/truck tires I was sure I have enough experience. Will try again tonight.
Thanks.