People are now telling me this sounds like a bent shifter fork?
Your symtoms are not quite what we'd expect from a bent shift fork. The lack of power thing is odd.
But problem is there is not much else it could be. The clutch is what it is and doesn't vary that much gear to gear.
So tell us, do you power shift this thing? No judgement here, I love to powershift. But its hard on shift forks, especially the 1 to 2 shift.
Usually the symptom is it goes into 2nd OK, then hops out into a false neutral.
Or maybe you like hard downshifts which would bend the fork the other less common way.
Maybe the shift linkage has come loose under the shifter cover. Someone just recently posted that happened to them. It was on a bent shift fork thread.
Has it been dropped on the shifter? That sometimes binds things up.
I've never seen an oil change fix such a problem. Nor have I seen one fix itself. Sorry.