Regarding the "perfect day"
what I meant here, was that the "Brides" or "Brides mother" or "Grooms" or "grooms mother" are angling for (what I said couldnt be achieved) "the perfect day" They are paying out thousands of £ (uk money , but it aint worth anything realy unless its made of gold bars ,but thats a different story) Anyways, You hear it all the time "ooooh it's going to be perfect" an all that bs .....
Whatever,
What I was trying to get accross (not very well) was that if you could think of the best day possible for you say, would it have standing around for three hours for photos in it, or would that spoil your day...
And if you had paid thousands for that day, and had looked forward to it for months ( like a young bride tends to) why would you want to stand around for three hours doing nothing, cos to me that would be a naff day, and if it had cost me I would be pissed.
Which agrees with the original premise of what a waste of time the mobile phone camera and facebook and twitter can be ,if used stupidly............
I have been to loads of rock concerts recently and I am sick of folk not enjoying the concert, but Instead, they are filming it so they can (allegedly) enjoy it later...."oooh look at the concert that I missed to film this so I can show you how good it would have been, had I paid attention at the time?" And it would appear that this trait extends to many things in life that are "of the moment"