I'm getting a little confused from reading your description, too!
But then, it doesn't take much with me...
My reference to the DK-GRN/RED presumed the K3-K5 harness you have contained those colors. It sounds like it's missing, so try this instead:
1. Connect the BLACK on the START solenoid to the BLACK at the voltage regulator (or anywhere else you see a BLACK: it's all the same IGNITION circuit).
2. Find a way to run the YEL/RED from the START solenoid to the grounding button START switch at the right handlebar. That will complete the START circuit, at least.
The K5-K6 harnesses had a DK-GN/RD that ran through the harness to the START entry on the safety module. Sorry, but I presumed that was in the harness you have, and mentioned using that wire to make the trip. If yours has the YEL/RED wire for START, then it is a copy of the K3-K4 harness, and not the K5. I suppose aftermarket harnesses will get a little confused from time to time, as there were lots of changes over the years.
The NEUTRAL switch: the color for the lamp on the K2 should match the color for the NEUTRAL switch at the engine connector, and tie straight to it. This presumes, though, that the NEUTRAL bulb was not swapped with some other bulb: they all fit each other's socket in the little dashboard! I think the NEUTRAL is LT-GRN/RED on the K2 (would have to go look...).
The BLACK question: the battery runs to the main 15 amp fuse as RED, then to the keyswitch as RED, on most of the 750s. (Some ran as RED to the main fuse, then BROWN to the keyswitch, depending on who made the harness, but those are not so common.) After the keyswitch, the power is on BLACK, which is the IGNITION circuit supply for everything on K0-K2. On the K3-later bikes, this is also true, but in the headlight the BLACK goes to the ON-OFF handlebar headlight switch, then comes back as BROWN to the keyswitch and the 7.5 amp fuse. It leaves the 7.5 amp fuse as BROWN/WHITE and goes to the headlight. There is another BROWN/WHITE from the keyswitch that goes to the 5 amp fuse on the fuseblock, which comes out of the fuse as BROWN/WHITE (on most, not all) 750s and goes to the taillight. So, there are 2 separate BROWN/WHITE circuits in the K3-K8 and "F" bikes, and they are not the same circuit!