Hi Mr Fish.

IMHO unless you plan to do a lot of bending you're far better off to get your pipes professionally mandrel-bent (This is the process that produces a bend with no wrinkles or kinks).
Make a mock-up (I did say 'mock'-up didn't I?) using pvc choobing (tubing, toobing) bits and pieces - bends, elbows - plus maybe a bit of gentle bending using a low flame. When you have it just right take it down to the bending shop.
It can be a bit of a fiddle but the end result is well worth the effort.
Alternately you can look up Burns Stainless Headers and buy practically an ss 'lego set' of bends which you can tack together as you go and 'viola' - your header system.

HTH
Franken.