OK went at it with a more systematic approach (not to hard since i was way out of the realm of systematic with my other approaches
Disconnected everything.
No ground attachment at the coils, no wire to attach there. Ran extra green wire i had to frame bolt just to make sure i had a good ground. I'll run a more official one before final assembly
attached neutral indicator light, ignition on, ohh green light
attached oil pressure light, ahhh red light
attached coils, nice still have indicator lights
attached VReg, yup still have lights
Attached black wire from headlight switch into harness
attached headlight blue, yellow, white and green...yay headlight, high beam and all, with indicator light (drag specialties, H4 bulb, built in indicator light for high beam)
attached Left blinker and buzzer (missed the buzzer while disconnecting) beeps and lights
attached Right blinker.. hmmm neutral and oil pressure flash. took the blinker off the bike, reattached wires.. OK blinker only flashes. Blinker itself is grounded to frame. insulate, reattach, Alright blinkers, and only blinkers flashing
turn on headlight, Marker lights work, blinkers work
attached black from kill switch. Pop (should have used the lightbulb, would have saved me $.85)
removed RH switch from handlebar, OK no BRIGHT light from test bulb.
so it looks to me like i have the kill switch grounding out to the housing then to the handlebars. i saved a good post on how to rebuild these switches, looks like that might be the direction i am headed.
during all this i cleaned and checked the wires and connectors for signs of damage and filth, looking much better now.
on another note, any good ideas on what i can use to replace the headlight bucket as a place to store all the wiring? i was thinking black PVC or a box of some sort i can seal of from the elements and mount behind the headlight or somewhere in that area, but I'm getting ahead of myself again, and we all saw where that got me yesterday.
All in all a productive morning.
Thanks All.