So, the finial solution.
The leaking hex head bolt was allready very tight.
I used the air gun (I tried without but that was a waste of time) and removed the bolt off both forks.
Yes the oil did come out but it was leaking, so I didn't know how much was in there, so it needed to come out anyway.
It was leaking because the last person to remove these bolts did not clean all the sealant up that someone before him, put on.
I cleaned all the sealant up, sanded both copper washers till they were flat and smooth.
Made sure that both surfaces the copper washer touches were flat and clean.
Then reinstalled these bolts, although I haven't found the correct torque value for them.
Now I have been leak free for 2 days.
Thanks to all for your info.