What a great bunch of men! Good, meaningful comments and advice, tempered with concern for all.
Yes, there is always risk. And the best we can do doesn't always leave us in control to the situation. There will always be some thoughtless, irresponsible idiot messing up our game. Too many of 'em simply don't care. But, as you know, there is another aspect to the problem
I like the "invisible" approach "no one can see me". I try to ride that way. But too many times they really do not see us. As you all know, they are mentally looking for cars and trucks. Motorcycles just don't register in their brain/s.
Having been a rider, I always try to watch for motorcycles. But, years ago it happened to me, too!
I looked 3 times and "saw" a clear road. As I pulled out I heard a "beep". I kept accellerating as I immediatly hit the shoulder to let the bike come on by me. I simply had not mentally registered the bike. It made me feel terribly stupid [told the guy how sorry I was later]. But it taught me first-hand just how a lot of people kill riders like us.
Another thing it taught me is BLOW THE HORN! If the guy hadn't hit his horn, I wouldn't have known he was there. I had mentally registered a clear road. Now, I hit the horn if there is any doubt of my being seen. Who cares if they like it or not. Being seen is what is paramount!
FWIW, I started at 13. I rode like an idiot! Young and insane! At 23 I finally decided I couldn't continue to ride and live. I Never went down but twice - unhurt. But I've seen countless times I should have crashed badly but somehow got through it. So, I quit riding to live! That was in 1960 [yep, I'm an old man].
In April, '09 I bought a '77 Cb550F. I love the bike - although I still think they are tall and heavy. I took the Mororcycle Safety Course before ever getting on the bike [49 years is a long time]. Yeah, I get out there with 'em. But all that crazy stuff is gone out of the old man. I do avoid rush-hour traffic and interstates.
My biggest fears are left-turners and the pull-outers. One thing the Safety Courst taught me is to watch their front tire/wheel. If they are coming, the tire and wheel will show more movement than the rest of the vehicle - just as they begin to move.
Thanks for letting me ramble. By now you've realzed what I think is worth almost what it cost you.
At any rate, this is a great, very informative forum. I appreciate it more than I can tell you. I continue to learn a LOT and thank each of you for that.
May we all ride safely with a wide grin!