The two incidents occurred over a riding career that started in 1968 so it is not a daily occurrence. Most of that time has been positive. What I am finding is HD riders who rode in their younger days and came back now that the kids are grown. Many started riding on Japanese bikes, so they will come over and talk. Many are sorry they sold them.
Then you have people like that limp dick Dentist who could only be parked among Harleys.
I needed some point grease and you could still get it at Harley shops. I was working in Woodside Queens NY and there is a big HD Dealer there. The guys there are very hardcore bikers. Some of the shop guys were hanging around the parts counter and when i asked for the grease they said, man you must have a blah, blah, blah, and I said no a 78 Honda.
They asked me where I got it fixed, I said my house.
They got friendlier and we joked some. They respected someone who could fix what they rode, and rode it. That is the difference between real riders and broke dick yuppies.
Two bad incidents in 30+ years is not much.