Are you sure stock is not up to snuff? I mean blowing up a 125 should not hurt as much as blowing up a 970cc motor..
I got a plan on how you can do this reasonable, get a few stock rods. Cut one off about 1/4 inch above big end, dont use a torch or abrasive cutoff saw, it can cause hard areas.
Turn a stub arbor on the lathe, and do not remove, you want it to be true and a slip fit to the rod bigend ID. This stub should be around, 30 thou shorter than rod width, tap the middle of the arbor to at least 3/8 NC.
Slip the cutoff bigend onto arbor, then secure with thick washer and bolt. Now you can carefully turn off most of the material, around the hardened race, you should end up in the neighborhood of .070-.090 thou thick.. if you start seeing shiny spots you are getting into the hardened area, good time to stop.
You will need a fine finish on the OD, should actually be ground if at all possible..
Presto.. hardened rod race to press into custom rod, with known to be adequate hardness.
Next problem, can be tricky calculating press fit, if you are good you can get it bang on, if its tight, you can hone/lap the ID or remove from rod , and hone out from the rod.
HD uses laps to resize their hardened pushin races, not sure if the size range covers yours.
The other option, get some 8620, turn your own, heat treat and size properly..
I think by now you may realize why there is not lots of people making their own rods!