You know, some folks need to stop and think about what all Jeff has gone through over the past 2 years or so. HIS life has NOT been a bed of Roses (more like a bed of THORNS). I KNOW that most of us have only met each other online and have no clue what we actually look like OR what we are really like, BUT, I am sure that WHEN he can, Jeff will make right on these things. There is NO WAY of knowing for sure what YOU'D do in HIS position, unless YOU'VE actually BEEN THERE. So, I HOPE that folks will stop and think about how YOU'D feel IF it were YOU who suddenly found your life turned upside down, much less have people turning on you because, for what ever reason, you didn't jump in as soon as OTHERS thought you should and tell all. Think about the history of medical problems that he and his Wife have gone through.
My 2 cents, multiplied