High pressure oil is basically only in the main gallery across the engine, in the cylinder block up to the head, and feeding the crankshaft bearings. Check the lubrication chart in the service manual.
Oil shooting out the gear selector oil seal is just strange. There's a second oil pump section that oils the transmission but I wouldn't expect it to have much pressure. That seal is not retained except by friction and any pressure would just pop it out, plus as I recall it just goes through the case with no oil supply to the seal area. I would suspect the crankcase is getting pressurized by a blocked breather tube?