Can't disagree with camelman or Steve, makes perfect sense.
Gives me the opportunity to expound on one of my pets, tightening things too tight. Things that are squishables like spark plugs, oil drain bolts, oil filter bolts, tappet covers, and exhaust header bolts should not be manhandled. They should be drawn up to the point where their squishable washer becomes squished then another skosh and that's it. If it leaks, tighten it a bit more.
If someone is using the stud or the bolt (if so inclined) to leverage an exhaust header into place one is asking for problems. The exhaust header should fit into the hole or spigot nicely, then be drawn up properly with little effort. If it takes effort something isn't fitting right. When it comes to aftermarket pipes that can happen.
If the pipe fits nice, and you get 4 or more threads started before any tightening really happens, all will be well (with bolts).
When it comes to stock pipes, I've seen owners tighten the rear first then try to draw the header into the head stripping the studs. Then breaking the stud trying to get it out of the head. Yikes!
So again I agree, the stock mount is the proper mount. I'll cheat fate with the bolts. And I encourage everyone to take it easy on the squishables.