Righto.
AS to order, I tighten the 6mm down first to gently pull the head down against the friction of the dowels, stop at hand tight. Then yes, they will be loose again after the nuts, and will need to be hand tightened again.
The comment about order of removing, is VERY important. 6mm bolts first, then the nuts. Otherwise the 6mm will become so tight as to be often mangled or even broken off when removing.
One time I removed the nuts first and had to put them back on to get the 6mm out.