Got myself a six pack of fine - lifetime warrantied crescent wrenches (one is the cutest little key chain style). That should do it all right. I will eventually get a proper sized long handle wrench for that axle nut.
And I found a great list of recommended tools (I knew I had seen one) on dan's motorcycle repair pages
http://www.dansmc.com/tools.htmIt is much more generic than I would have liked.. I want to know about MY bike dammit. (selfish I know)... but I think the listing of the OEM toolkit tools (ABOVE) is the best start. Thank you Jonesy!
I would add to it ... a spark plug wrench, needle nose pliers, torque wrench, a big crecent wrench, funnel (with screen), magnetic pan, industrial rubber gloves (1$ at dollarama... and awesome) - a few good screwdrivers (a big one for prying) and a bag of old socks to clean everything up.
Thanks again all