You know, I have gone through the same thing in the last few years. My wife insists that she doesnt want me killing myself on a motorcycle. Funny thing is, I dont want to either. But after 15 years without, I could not stand it. So, I bought a kick ass GL1100 for a song, put some work into it, and can ride it anywhere. But, I dont. Just putt around in the country. I am a good rider, well trained, always wear a helmet (a very good helmet, full face), leathers, protective footwear, and heavy gloves. Frankly, riding a motorcycle scares me as much as it thrills me. A good healthy dose of fear will generally keep you from doing dumb things. In my book, to enjoy them is to respect them.
That said, I have since gone out and bought a CB550F which brings me here, and it wasnt running at the time. Hope to crank it up this weekend.
Gotta have fun somehow. I like hanging out in the garage. Hope your wife is better soon.