You can not be convinced all you like, however:
You are talking about being able to flex the brace as in figure 'a'.
Yes, you can. This direction doesn' matter, as this isn't a direction that the forks would try to go anyway. Nothing really to counteract in this directon.
However, I seriously doubt you could flex the stock brace in figure 'b' by hand, which is an important brace, as without the extra bracing, the only thing keeping the forks compressing and extending at the same rate and distance would be the axle and an inch or so of aluminum that is held together with bolts at the end of the forks.
And please see figure 'c'. With the 4 mounting points at the corners of the brace (blue dots), getting it to flex would be extremely difficult. However, without the brace, it would be extremely easy to get the forks to 'twist'. This area of flex is extremely dangerous, and couneracted quite well witht he stock brace.