Well I finally tested out my "fixed" stand. It is much better than it was, but not perfect. Of course I'd have to completely fill, redrill the hole and get new hardware to make it perfect.
What I ended up doing was bending the stand so it stead of being "bannana shaped" the wrong way, it is now bent the opposite direction. This made the bike stand a bit straighter. Then I squished the ears of it back together a bit, and installed a washer under the head of the mounting nut. I did not use any special machinist washer, just a standard one. So I will need to check it for tight once in a while, but the threads for actually a little boogered up so it may well hold itself in place.
That all done, the bike stands much straight and doesn't lean as badly. It used to be that every time I leaned it over(especially the wrong way on an incline) it felt like I was going to drop it on my leg.
As for levers, replacing them did not work. When I got the replacements I realized they were pretty much the same thickness as my worn out stockers. So they obviously are not direct reproductions of the originals. With that I realized the ears of my clutch lever mount were spread out a bit. So I placed a washer under the head of that mounting bolt to suck the mount together. Then I put a nut on the end of the bolt that sticks through the bottom so it won't loosen up. Much much less wobble in the handle, though it does have the slightest drag on it now, I will likely loosen the bolt a hair after the mount has time to relax in position.