Just thought I would post a happy update to this.
Major headache came last week when I took it out for a ride and had oil blast out of the same place on the OTHER side of the bike. At this point I was ready to give up but my friend told me to check the head bolts again. I thought there was no way they could back out as I had them to book spec torques and also LocTite on them. I removed the rocker head and checked them from inside to the outside by the book. All were tight...oh no...
Then I got to the 2 bolts right above the leak and got at least 2 more turns on them before I hit the torque value.
I can only think that I torqued them all to half the spec then did the others and forgot these 2. Anyway the wife and I went about 300 kms today and everything is dry.
I guess the total cost for new head gasket, O-rings, all new gaskets, relapping valves and new valve seals to be under $200.