It seems to me that what tends to irk the old timers (often the ones who can steer you quickest to the fix) is the lack of searching, and the way questions are put across.
Often, newbies (I am still one!) join, and start rattling off questions, with very little background details or info, and having not looked around for the answers first.
Despite having chosen options that may not have pleased the powers that be, or in hindsight been the smartest choices, I have still been helped tremendously by the folks on this site.
But I have certainly tried to help myself as much as possible before hitting up the experts. This serves 2 purposes. The first is that it makes me dig a little deeper into this bike of mine before seeking help. The more I dig, the better I know it, and the more self sufficient I become.
The second is, there really are SO many answers on here that are found with a bit of research. this way, when you hit the wall, a few of the more persnickety members here are usually willing to pipe in and get you out trouble

Zveugen, welcome aboard! You will have a ball with that bike, and this forum will help you spend quality time wrenching, so you can spend more quality time riding.